“When you're safe at home you wish you were having an adventure; when you're having an adventure you wish you were safe at home” -Thornton Wilder
Monday, May 12, 2008
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Mother's Day
Its Mothers Day and I thought it was a perfect opportunity to talk about my Mom, and since I've known her for almost 30 years, I thought I'd tell you 30 things I love about her.
1. She is beautiful. The woman doesn't look even close to her real age.
2. She is funny. She makes me laugh all the time.
3. She is the all time best soup maker in the world. Seriously, no one compares. Her Beer-Cheese soup is the best, although it is a close tie with the taco soup yumminess.
4. She can't make cornbread the same way twice. She is a great cook, but she can't follow recipes because she is always thinking of ways to improve...therefore the cornbread is always slightly different. I love it!
5. Landscape Architect. She is the most talented landscaper I know. She can walk onto a piece of property and suddenly she has a great vision for how the yard should look. She is SO good.
6. Hostess with the mostest. She is the best entertainer. Taught me everything I know. Show up and she'll take care of you, weather you called ahead or not.
7. She'll try anything at least once. When she came to Morocco this past year, we ate sheep guts for one of the meals. She tried it! It was amazing. No one is ever willing to try that stuff!
8. She gets really tan and stays that way all year long. Ok, this technically is one of the reasons I am jealous of her. Her skin is super beautiful and always a lovely color. Unfortunately she didn't share that little gene with me, but I try not to hold it against her.
9. She is super generous. With time, money, things. It doesn't matter she loves to take care of people.
10. Snacks for the Road. This goes along with the one above, she wants to take care of you so she always makes sure there is enough food for the road. Be the trip one hour or 24 there is going to be snacks galore somewhere in the car.
11. She loves me. Even when I've been a jerk she still cares about me and wants what is best for me. Thats true with all her kids.
12. She can sew like nobodies business. Give her a pattern, or not, and she'll make you something super beautiful in no time.
13. She knits too!
14. She thinks I'm funny. I already mentioned that she makes me laugh, but she also laughs at me even when I tell really lame jokes.
15. The Mom Dance. I'm pretty sure she invented it and there is nothing quite like it. I cannot say more, but if you know her you know what I'm talking about.
16. She is the mastermind of embarrassment. Freshman year of high school, after a band concert. Our car was parked next to a boys car that my friend had a crush on. We commented on how the car was dirty. My mom opens the car door and starts cleaning said crushes car!!! We look up to see said crush walking towards us!!! Like I said mastermind.
17. She loves girl movies, and will watch them again and again. No one knows how many times she's seen "An American President", but she can quote almost the whole thing.
18. One of her favorite movies is "Pretty Woman".
19. She's never once gotten mad at me for taking so long to be born - 23 hours, plus surgery :-S
20. She supports me in whatever I want to do. Little and big things, she's behind me all the way.
21. When we had to take piano lessons she took them too.
22. She likes to talk on the phone.
23. She's learning how to use the internet!
24. She can do anything artistic. Arrange flowers, draw you a picture of a house, etc. Her gifts are uncanny.
25. She loves to laugh at herself.
26. Overly obsessed with OSU football and other OSU sports. Seriously I think she is one of the biggest fans there is.
27. She loves and worries about my kids, and is therefore an excellent Grandma.
28. She takes care of my Dad. Without her Dad would be "hurtin' for certain."She sure does love him and that makes me super glad.
29. She can keep one eye super closed and smooth while the other eye is wide open. Its a bit trippy, but really cool.
30. She leads by example. She taught me how to be a good daughter, a good daughter-in-law and a good mom.
There are so many other things I love about her, these are just the tip of the iceberg. I was super blessed to have her and my Dad come and visit us this weekend. Thanks Mom for being so great. I love you more than I can say.
1. She is beautiful. The woman doesn't look even close to her real age.
2. She is funny. She makes me laugh all the time.
3. She is the all time best soup maker in the world. Seriously, no one compares. Her Beer-Cheese soup is the best, although it is a close tie with the taco soup yumminess.
4. She can't make cornbread the same way twice. She is a great cook, but she can't follow recipes because she is always thinking of ways to improve...therefore the cornbread is always slightly different. I love it!
5. Landscape Architect. She is the most talented landscaper I know. She can walk onto a piece of property and suddenly she has a great vision for how the yard should look. She is SO good.
6. Hostess with the mostest. She is the best entertainer. Taught me everything I know. Show up and she'll take care of you, weather you called ahead or not.
7. She'll try anything at least once. When she came to Morocco this past year, we ate sheep guts for one of the meals. She tried it! It was amazing. No one is ever willing to try that stuff!
8. She gets really tan and stays that way all year long. Ok, this technically is one of the reasons I am jealous of her. Her skin is super beautiful and always a lovely color. Unfortunately she didn't share that little gene with me, but I try not to hold it against her.
9. She is super generous. With time, money, things. It doesn't matter she loves to take care of people.
10. Snacks for the Road. This goes along with the one above, she wants to take care of you so she always makes sure there is enough food for the road. Be the trip one hour or 24 there is going to be snacks galore somewhere in the car.
11. She loves me. Even when I've been a jerk she still cares about me and wants what is best for me. Thats true with all her kids.
12. She can sew like nobodies business. Give her a pattern, or not, and she'll make you something super beautiful in no time.
13. She knits too!
14. She thinks I'm funny. I already mentioned that she makes me laugh, but she also laughs at me even when I tell really lame jokes.
15. The Mom Dance. I'm pretty sure she invented it and there is nothing quite like it. I cannot say more, but if you know her you know what I'm talking about.
16. She is the mastermind of embarrassment. Freshman year of high school, after a band concert. Our car was parked next to a boys car that my friend had a crush on. We commented on how the car was dirty. My mom opens the car door and starts cleaning said crushes car!!! We look up to see said crush walking towards us!!! Like I said mastermind.
17. She loves girl movies, and will watch them again and again. No one knows how many times she's seen "An American President", but she can quote almost the whole thing.
18. One of her favorite movies is "Pretty Woman".
19. She's never once gotten mad at me for taking so long to be born - 23 hours, plus surgery :-S
20. She supports me in whatever I want to do. Little and big things, she's behind me all the way.
21. When we had to take piano lessons she took them too.
22. She likes to talk on the phone.
23. She's learning how to use the internet!
24. She can do anything artistic. Arrange flowers, draw you a picture of a house, etc. Her gifts are uncanny.
25. She loves to laugh at herself.
26. Overly obsessed with OSU football and other OSU sports. Seriously I think she is one of the biggest fans there is.
27. She loves and worries about my kids, and is therefore an excellent Grandma.
28. She takes care of my Dad. Without her Dad would be "hurtin' for certain."She sure does love him and that makes me super glad.
29. She can keep one eye super closed and smooth while the other eye is wide open. Its a bit trippy, but really cool.
30. She leads by example. She taught me how to be a good daughter, a good daughter-in-law and a good mom.
There are so many other things I love about her, these are just the tip of the iceberg. I was super blessed to have her and my Dad come and visit us this weekend. Thanks Mom for being so great. I love you more than I can say.
Friday, May 9, 2008
6 months!
Benson is 6 months old today! I can't believe how fast time flies. Our little Moroccan is growing up super cute and full of joy. He loves his older brother and his daddy. I love watching him get excited when he sees one of them. His mouth opens in a huge smile. Josiah lately has taken to really paying attention to him. He walks up to Benson and leans real close to say "hi". Benson loves it. I love being the mom of boys, especially these two!
Benson is a little over 18 lbs and 28+ inches long. Yep thats right building my little football team :)
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
The story of our travels, part 4
Here we are at the end. Its always sad when you get to the end. Especially the end of a great trip. But we're here, so we'll enjoy it while we can. The wedding day started slow and comfortable. We all took our time getting ready. The guys made sure things were set up and that the wedding would go off with no problems. The wedding planner, dresses, throne chairs (you'll see in a minute) and the throne tent would arrive around 5pm we thought, and the plan was to begin at 7pm. Kinda late, but that's the way they do it.
Everything was ready to go, all we were waiting for was the wedding planner. Finally we called her to find out that she was sitting in town waiting for us?! So quickly we dashed down to see her. She came finally dresses, etc. in hand. We got Elena dressed in one of her 5 dresses and rushed upstairs for some quick posed photos. Then we were off.
Everything was ready to go, all we were waiting for was the wedding planner. Finally we called her to find out that she was sitting in town waiting for us?! So quickly we dashed down to see her. She came finally dresses, etc. in hand. We got Elena dressed in one of her 5 dresses and rushed upstairs for some quick posed photos. Then we were off.
The next day we all took our time waking up and enjoying each others company. We went out to a special dinner with the whole family (minus D & E). We were all wishing we had more time together, but glad the time we had was so full of joy. The next day (Sunday) we headed out early in the morning to catch a train back to the capital city of Rabat. We spent the night there and then the next morning jumped into our rental car and drove down to the Casablanca airport.
The trip home was pretty uneventful. We stayed one night in Madrid, went to a fun Irish pub there for dinner. It was early so they didn't mind the kiddos joining us for dinner. Then we slept and off we went the long distance home.
We go and pick up Daniel and Elena tonight. They have had some great adventures it sounds like traveling around Morocco. I hope it was a time full of joy for them. We are so excited to have Elena as part of our family now. And extra excited that she wanted to join our family with a Moroccan wedding!
Monday, May 5, 2008
The story of our travels, part 3
After a quick weekend break, I am back to tell you all about the wonderful wedding we had in Morocco. Have I mentioned that it was a ton of fun? It was truly one of the best weddings I've attended. Perhaps because the whole family was together, or maybe because we love Daniel and Elena so much, then again it could simply be because Morocco is a wonderful place. For whatever reason it was the best.
So I mentioned that we killed a cow, two sheep and some chickens for the first night, that was Wednesday. Then on the next day we woke up early (relatively) and Elena put on her special henna garment. Those of you who don't know henna is a herb that is mixed with water and something else to create a paste that works as a temporary pigment for your skin or hair. I think you can use it on other things too but it is mostly for those things. One of the Moroccan traditions is that the bride has her hands and feet covered in decorative henna. The detail is so complete it appears as if she is wearing socks and gloves. She sits pampered while receiving this treatment. Then allows the henna to dry and color her skin. It lasts about 3 weeks depending on your skin. Anyway, Elena wore a traditional dress for having henna done and all of us ladies also got a small amount done too.
Around 1pm we ate the first of many feasts. Beef Tagine with olives and prunes. One of my favorite meals. It was spectacular. The men ate on the roof under the tent, and the women ate in our formal sitting area. Many women from the villages we are building in came to join the celebration. There was dancing and singing. Some of the women did some traditional Berber wedding singing and then we also heard some traditional Arabic wedding singing.It was great fun. The men always tell us that the women have all the fun at weddings. The men just eat and run, us girls hang out and have as much fun as possible.
That evening we gathered on the roof for Daniels henna party. Traditionally Elena would not be present, just the family and the grooms friends. We were blending the traditions though and so Elena and all of us girls joined the men for the party on the roof. We ate another feast (Beef Tagine again - YUM!) and then we all danced together. It was so much fun to dance to Moroccan music and some American music too. Since it was a gathering of close friends we were able to be more relaxed and enjoy each others company. It was one of my favorite parts of the wedding.
At the end of the evening we danced to the "hokey poky". It was great! We foreigners did it first and then invited all of the Moroccans to join us. They hesitated at first - this is not something they had ever seen before, but then they jumped in. Oh my word they LOVED it. I remember specifically one guy trying to do the moves and he was laughing so hard that he could hardly hold his "right arm out and shake it all about." It was so much fun we decided to add it to the next nights list of activities.
Speaking of the next night...The last and final night was Friday. It held all of the traditional things we would find in one of our weddings. We would have called it the main event. But I'll just have to tell you about that tomorrow! Ha, sorry to make you wait again, but I want to keep you coming back. See you tomorrow with the final installment of "the story of our travels".
Elena receiving henna, notice all the cushy pillows. Ya, pretty relaxing.
The final outcome, isn't it beautiful?!
My henna. I loved it, but its already worn off! Guess I'll just have to go back to Morocco! ;-)
Here we are minus Benson, he was taking a nap.
Nate, the photographer. He is living in Morocco right now, which was lucky for us. He did all the pictures for the wedding. He does amazing work. Check out his website.
So I mentioned that we killed a cow, two sheep and some chickens for the first night, that was Wednesday. Then on the next day we woke up early (relatively) and Elena put on her special henna garment. Those of you who don't know henna is a herb that is mixed with water and something else to create a paste that works as a temporary pigment for your skin or hair. I think you can use it on other things too but it is mostly for those things. One of the Moroccan traditions is that the bride has her hands and feet covered in decorative henna. The detail is so complete it appears as if she is wearing socks and gloves. She sits pampered while receiving this treatment. Then allows the henna to dry and color her skin. It lasts about 3 weeks depending on your skin. Anyway, Elena wore a traditional dress for having henna done and all of us ladies also got a small amount done too.
Around 1pm we ate the first of many feasts. Beef Tagine with olives and prunes. One of my favorite meals. It was spectacular. The men ate on the roof under the tent, and the women ate in our formal sitting area. Many women from the villages we are building in came to join the celebration. There was dancing and singing. Some of the women did some traditional Berber wedding singing and then we also heard some traditional Arabic wedding singing.It was great fun. The men always tell us that the women have all the fun at weddings. The men just eat and run, us girls hang out and have as much fun as possible.
That evening we gathered on the roof for Daniels henna party. Traditionally Elena would not be present, just the family and the grooms friends. We were blending the traditions though and so Elena and all of us girls joined the men for the party on the roof. We ate another feast (Beef Tagine again - YUM!) and then we all danced together. It was so much fun to dance to Moroccan music and some American music too. Since it was a gathering of close friends we were able to be more relaxed and enjoy each others company. It was one of my favorite parts of the wedding.
At the end of the evening we danced to the "hokey poky". It was great! We foreigners did it first and then invited all of the Moroccans to join us. They hesitated at first - this is not something they had ever seen before, but then they jumped in. Oh my word they LOVED it. I remember specifically one guy trying to do the moves and he was laughing so hard that he could hardly hold his "right arm out and shake it all about." It was so much fun we decided to add it to the next nights list of activities.
Speaking of the next night...The last and final night was Friday. It held all of the traditional things we would find in one of our weddings. We would have called it the main event. But I'll just have to tell you about that tomorrow! Ha, sorry to make you wait again, but I want to keep you coming back. See you tomorrow with the final installment of "the story of our travels".
My henna. I loved it, but its already worn off! Guess I'll just have to go back to Morocco! ;-)
Here we are minus Benson, he was taking a nap.
Nate, the photographer. He is living in Morocco right now, which was lucky for us. He did all the pictures for the wedding. He does amazing work. Check out his website.Friday, May 2, 2008
The story of our travels, part 2
I was thinking I would tell you about the wedding today, but there is really so much I have to tell you about first. So, depending on how this goes we might make it to the wedding, but we probably won't. I am just helping you all learn how to be patient :-)
Once we arrived in Morocco and got settled we started talking about what all is involved in a Moroccan wedding. Daniel and Elena both wanted to include Moroccan traditions as well as including some of our traditions. So we needed to know what that meant. I've talked about weddings in Morocco before, So you may know a little about what they include, but let me fill you in as much as I can. The wedding actually lasts quite a while. Ours was a full 3 days. The first day they set up a tent, get things ready, kill the animals that we'll be eating for the feast and then eat the guts that night. Sound gross? It is, but they love it. A major part of a Moroccan wedding is the food. We had a cow, two sheep and a bunch of chickens for our feasts. We ate the evening of the first night - the guts like I already mentioned, then lunch and dinner of the second day, and then again lunch and dinner of the third day. So much food, and oh so good!
The second day they do henna for the women in the morning and then a henna party for the groom in the evening. Usually that evening there would be a dinner at the Brides home where all of the grooms friends would come, but not the groom. In our case we did it all at the same house including the Bride and the Groom since we were all staying there. The third and final night the groom comes and picks up the bride at her home and they drive around the city honking cars (I was told that they only do this in the country, not in the cities in Morocco - its kinda a "redneck" thing :-)) The Bride and the Groom then arrive and spend most of the evening sitting on large chairs getting pictures taken with people and watching all of their friends dance and eat. The bride will change her dress as many times as she likes depending on the money she has and the number of dresses she has to change into. These aren't just any dresses either, they are elaborate fancy things.
So we had to figure out all of these details. We went to see a woman who we dubbed "the wedding planner" she was great. She has a shop where you go and rent everything you need for a wedding - a tent, dresses, chairs, even hand washing things. So we spent time with her talking about what was needed and what we'd like. We spent one day actually picking out dresses. Elena settled on 4 fancy, traditional Moroccan dresses and one more traditional wedding dress. Each of us girls were given the opportunity to rent a dress for the main wedding too.
Like I said yesterday we were able to visit with friends and do a little work too. Joey and the guys headed out Monday - Wednesday morning helping with various building projects. They had a blast getting to spend time with the Moroccans.
Well, I think I'll wait to tell you about the wedding tomorrow. For now here are more pictures to help tell the story. It is so much fun looking back over these pictures and remembering our two weeks there. It was really too short, but full of lots of great memories!
A typical morning in Willie & Gretchen's apartment. Believe it or not, we're not all there!
Josiah and Thomas had way too much fun together on this trip. Here they are pushing stools around, and loving it. Only in Morocco!
Having more fun climbing on stuff.
Josiah has started to do this thing were if you're sitting he wants to come and sit by you like a big boy. Here he is sitting with Gramps.
Listening to music. He loves it!
Benson and I hanging out.
Another big part of a Moroccan wedding is dancing. They love to dance and I think ever night we were there they were dancing a little bit. They usually tie a scarf around their buns to help them jiggle more. Here James is getting a scarf so he can "break it down" with the best of them.
Daniel & Brent helping a guy "mow" his lawn.
The tent getting set up on the first day of the wedding. We set it up on the roof of our building.
Daniel and the cow. They butcher it right there where he's standing, and we all watched. Its pretty gross, so I don't watch the whole thing. Its all part of the fun though! Maybe we should add that tradition to our weddings?!
Josiah on one of the sheep, he sure does love Moroccan sheep!
Once we arrived in Morocco and got settled we started talking about what all is involved in a Moroccan wedding. Daniel and Elena both wanted to include Moroccan traditions as well as including some of our traditions. So we needed to know what that meant. I've talked about weddings in Morocco before, So you may know a little about what they include, but let me fill you in as much as I can. The wedding actually lasts quite a while. Ours was a full 3 days. The first day they set up a tent, get things ready, kill the animals that we'll be eating for the feast and then eat the guts that night. Sound gross? It is, but they love it. A major part of a Moroccan wedding is the food. We had a cow, two sheep and a bunch of chickens for our feasts. We ate the evening of the first night - the guts like I already mentioned, then lunch and dinner of the second day, and then again lunch and dinner of the third day. So much food, and oh so good!
The second day they do henna for the women in the morning and then a henna party for the groom in the evening. Usually that evening there would be a dinner at the Brides home where all of the grooms friends would come, but not the groom. In our case we did it all at the same house including the Bride and the Groom since we were all staying there. The third and final night the groom comes and picks up the bride at her home and they drive around the city honking cars (I was told that they only do this in the country, not in the cities in Morocco - its kinda a "redneck" thing :-)) The Bride and the Groom then arrive and spend most of the evening sitting on large chairs getting pictures taken with people and watching all of their friends dance and eat. The bride will change her dress as many times as she likes depending on the money she has and the number of dresses she has to change into. These aren't just any dresses either, they are elaborate fancy things.
So we had to figure out all of these details. We went to see a woman who we dubbed "the wedding planner" she was great. She has a shop where you go and rent everything you need for a wedding - a tent, dresses, chairs, even hand washing things. So we spent time with her talking about what was needed and what we'd like. We spent one day actually picking out dresses. Elena settled on 4 fancy, traditional Moroccan dresses and one more traditional wedding dress. Each of us girls were given the opportunity to rent a dress for the main wedding too.
Like I said yesterday we were able to visit with friends and do a little work too. Joey and the guys headed out Monday - Wednesday morning helping with various building projects. They had a blast getting to spend time with the Moroccans.
Well, I think I'll wait to tell you about the wedding tomorrow. For now here are more pictures to help tell the story. It is so much fun looking back over these pictures and remembering our two weeks there. It was really too short, but full of lots of great memories!
Thursday, May 1, 2008
The story of our travels, part 1
Two babies under 6 months.
One 1 year old.
Two crazy toddlers.
One excited 3 year old.
Eleven anxious, tired and slightly weird adults.
17 of us headed out for our flight that left at 7:50am, Wednesday, April 16th. That meant we headed to the airport at 4:00 with a quick stop by the coffee shop for necessary caffeine. Scattered around the airplane we enjoyed movies and trivia, did our best to keep the little ones contained and tried to catch a few moments of shut eye. Our first lay over was in Atlanta, then a 9 hour flight to Madrid where we met up with Joey's dad, Willie. Amazingly enough the kids did great, sleeping a lot and generally enjoying themselves. Praise the Lord!
Once we got to Madrid, we rented two cars and drove down to the coastal town of Algeciras, Spain. Due to weather the ferries across to Morocco were delayed and rescheduled. We decided to stay the night and head out the next morning. We finally arrived in Morocco mid-afternoon on Friday the 19th. Quickly we headed to a restaurant for some of the best food in the world.
Once we got to Morocco our travels were not done, but our hearts were light. We were finally in the country we love, excited about a week among people who we adore. We rented another car and off we went. The 6 hour drive was long and windy, we arrived after dark ready to eat and sleep, and SO excited to finally be there. Our time was short so we did our best to jump into things right away. We visited friends, did some shopping, checked out houses being built and spent some time getting ready for the wedding.
And oh what a wedding it was! It was so fun, and the details came together so nicely...but I'll have to tell you about that later, for now enjoy a few pictures of our trip and check back soon for the rest of the story :-)
All 17 of us before our first flight. (From L - R: Me, Benson, Amanda, Ben, John, Sarah, Thomas, Brent, James, Joey, Josiah, Clif, Judah, Becky, Katy, Elena & Daniel) Sorry its blurry, we were a bit tired :-)
Watching the airplanes
The walk from terminal to terminal in Atlanta was long, kinda like a runway, so we struck various poses since we're models you know :-)
Need I say more?
The whole family, with the rock of Gibraltar behind us.
Make shift jungle gym on the ferry.
Finally enjoying great Moroccan cuisine.
One 1 year old.
Two crazy toddlers.
One excited 3 year old.
Eleven anxious, tired and slightly weird adults.
17 of us headed out for our flight that left at 7:50am, Wednesday, April 16th. That meant we headed to the airport at 4:00 with a quick stop by the coffee shop for necessary caffeine. Scattered around the airplane we enjoyed movies and trivia, did our best to keep the little ones contained and tried to catch a few moments of shut eye. Our first lay over was in Atlanta, then a 9 hour flight to Madrid where we met up with Joey's dad, Willie. Amazingly enough the kids did great, sleeping a lot and generally enjoying themselves. Praise the Lord!
Once we got to Madrid, we rented two cars and drove down to the coastal town of Algeciras, Spain. Due to weather the ferries across to Morocco were delayed and rescheduled. We decided to stay the night and head out the next morning. We finally arrived in Morocco mid-afternoon on Friday the 19th. Quickly we headed to a restaurant for some of the best food in the world.
Once we got to Morocco our travels were not done, but our hearts were light. We were finally in the country we love, excited about a week among people who we adore. We rented another car and off we went. The 6 hour drive was long and windy, we arrived after dark ready to eat and sleep, and SO excited to finally be there. Our time was short so we did our best to jump into things right away. We visited friends, did some shopping, checked out houses being built and spent some time getting ready for the wedding.
And oh what a wedding it was! It was so fun, and the details came together so nicely...but I'll have to tell you about that later, for now enjoy a few pictures of our trip and check back soon for the rest of the story :-)
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